FINDING YOUR OWN LIFE.

Have you ever thought, you can ever customise your life.? It's not your own life, you are in a circle connected with many other lives. But, with your self decisions and your thought process, CAN YOU REALLY CUSTOMISE IT..?

Choosing a person in your circle, may provide several alternatives on how you shape yourself in the society and how your identity is developed.

What is a life.?

There are many versions of life.Some may describe it as a journey, some may elaborate it as a Mysterious road, An adventure or A goal etc. A simpler version of life with my experiences are "A HAND PAINTED PICTURE" #painting You can never go wrong with a painting. Whether you paint like a Professional or an amateur. The feelings and the variations of colour will always bring out the best in it. The colours that every painter uses are much more same, but the mixing of it brings out the uniqueness of every painter.

How can you be unique.?

Let's assume, you're an individual colour say;Yellow, the people you choose are the other variants of colour. The paintings are the chapters of your #life.To imagine a painting, it will always take more than one colour to intensify it. If you believe, it's my life, self centre yourself, Bring out your painting with uniqueness of just one colour, it will never attract hearts. To be able to show the uniqueness of your colour, one must blend with other colours to bring out your own new variant of yellow. If you're still thinking that how am i still unique.? Well, you forgot that you're YELLOW, an individual within yourself and no other colour is yellow like you. They may be RED,GREEN,ORANGE,PINK but not yellow. They may take an extract from you to build their own #unique #self, but they could never copy you the way you're.

Can you really customise it..?

Yes, definitely. In positive psychology, there are two common aspects of understanding life:

• A universal method to understand one's life.

• The #belief that life itself is meaningful.

Many interpret it as you either need a universal method or your own belief to understand your life. But, i believe life experiences always teaches them to be universal and self believed at the same time. As we discussed, yellow alone can never intensify the painting.You do need other colours, thats universal understanding. On contrary, yellow is also capable of blending with other variants to form itself in its own unique colour every time, this is how you have your own belief.

Ending on this note, If you ask yourself whether i can customise it or not..? These are two factors that improvises your life. You can't be universal always, it ruins your self confidence, but surely it does enhances your social unity.Vice versa, living with just the belief of having a wisdom, may challenge your social position but you always have a #positive attitude towards your life.

To fully retain the way of life one must swipe within two aspects as needed and improvise the quality of their own decisions and thoughts by also respecting the value of others.