WHY IT'S OK TO ARGUE SOMETIMES..

Have you ever felt the urge to shout out loud, laugh or cry unwillingly. Probably, break some glasses or throw things on someone or in person alone.?

Your silence is equal to an argument. The reflection of silence blows a whistle for an argument. On contrary, silence may also be a light of wisdom.

In a world, full of positivity and negativity around us. This is how we are described as HUMAN. We are ineffable amongst ourselves. Knowing your self, opens up many hidden doors within yourself. You may be confident enough to say that you know yourself, instead it's always a mystery and it can only be unlocked unless all the phases that you experience with your life. Waging your inner emotions on the exact moment of life inspires your inner self to build and understand the working of it.

You're a HUMAN and as there are body, mind and soul needs. There is in fact a need for emotions that creates urges, despairs, guilts if not fulfilled. The emotions if not put together on its exact point leaves a mark of such negativity and affects your body, mind and soul. This indeed describes how you build your future identity. Silence is what plays major role, when you need to accomplish your needs.

As described earlier, when you're silent your perspective towards any of the situation gives one solution. Either positive or negative. But when you start speaking, you have many other perspectives to think on and may guide your inner self as well as the other person's self realisation. A child is born innocent. But as it tends to accept the surrounding, it develops within itself. A child's nurturing in a slum may develop a harsh thought process that has developed by several financial, social toleration and finds two extent reasons to overcome it. Either Silence or Rage. A healthy argument is the middle way out.

Silence may ruin yourself and creates a false identity and rage may ruin the society and turn out dangerous at some point. The other way out, is to argue or discuss at some point. It not only clears your thought process, but also the people that are connected to you. Lets, say there is a family gathering and you would easily avoid it, because you are silent enough for the criticism you receive, or the other kind of people who would willingly attend it, for a sake of criticising for their rage. The third kind of people are the smartest and balancing ones, they will instead attend the gathering, finds their comfort spot with silence and without any criticism for others and also when required fluidly argues to prove themselves or self realise their mistakes.

How healthy argument is Helpful ?

• Sheds light on the real issue and the misunderstanding created

• Develops a relationship that has been compromised with infidelity

• Helps in venting out frustration and builds up a better overall health

• Helps with righteous decisions

• Develops respect for other person's perspective

I believe NOBODY is negative. The circumstances they face within and the choices they make leads them to negativity.